The heavy glass door of the grocery store had felt like a gateway to a marathon I wasn’t prepared to run. At eight months pregnant, every movement was a calculated negotiation with gravity. My lower back was a tight knot of protesting muscles, and my feet had long since swelled past the limits of my favorite shoes. I stood at the base of our apartment stairs, clutching bags filled with the mundane ingredients of a life in transition—milk, vegetables, vitamins, and rice. The plastic handles bit into my palms, a sharp physical reminder of the weight I was carrying both inside and out.
It wasn’t a moment for high drama. I didn’t shout or weep. I simply looked at my husband, who stood in the foyer with his keys still dangling from his fingers, and asked for help. It was a reasonable request, the kind of small, supportive gesture that forms the bedrock of a partnership. But before he could even process the words, a voice sharper than a razor blade cut through the air from the kitchen.
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