Hospice nurse who’s seen 100s of people d.ie says everyone always says the same thing on their deathbed

Nurse Julie McFadden has spent years at the bedside of dying patients and often speaks openly about what she has learned from witnessing countless final moments.

The hospice nurse, widely known online as Hospice Nurse Julie, has cared for hundreds of people at the end of their lives and has shared that many patients reflect honestly on their lives as death approaches.

Julie has built a massive following across social media, with hundreds of thousands of subscribers on YouTube and Instagram and more than a million followers on TikTok. She is also the author of Nothing to Fear: Demystifying Death to Live More Fully, a New York Times bestseller.

In one of her videos, Julie revealed three things she personally avoids because they can shorten a person’s life: drinking alcohol every day, smoking or vaping, and riding motorcycles or ATVs.

Speaking about vaping specifically, Julie said: “Vaping is just as bad [as smoking],” adding: “It affects more than just the lungs. It affects your whole cardiovascular system.”

She went on to say of booze: “I’ve seen enough people die alcoholic deaths, meaning from liver cirrhosis, because of drinking, to know that it is not good. And it is preventable.”

Julie has also previously talked about what people tend to say when they reach the very end of their lives and are reflecting from their deathbeds.

In a 2024 conversation with Rob Moore on the Disruptors podcast, she explained that the most common regret people express is spending too much of their lives working—something she acknowledges is difficult to avoid when financial responsibilities are involved.

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