Making room to welcome what comes next
What if clearing out the space around us also allowed us to create space within ourselves? Sorting, donating, or organizing the belongings of a deceased loved one is neither “forgetting” them nor disrespectful. It’s a powerful symbolic gesture, a way of saying: “You remain in my heart, but I choose to move forward.”
A gentle approach is to start with the least emotionally charged items. Then, over time, you can choose to keep one or two important mementos—a photograph, a piece of jewelry, a letter—and part with the rest. Donating these items to a charity or someone in need can also give new meaning to this detachment.
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