People say time heals everything. I used to believe that until I learned that some truths don’t fade. They wait. And when they surface, they change everything you thought you’d made peace with.
I’m seventy years old now.
I’ve buried two wives and said goodbye to almost everyone who once filled my life with laughter. I thought I understood grief. I thought I had learned how to live beside it.
That truth began on a winter night twenty years ago, when the snow fell like it meant harm.
It was just days before Christmas.
My son Michael, his wife Rachel, and their two children had come over for an early holiday dinner. I lived in a quiet town where storms were routine and neighbors waved whether they knew you or not. The forecast promised nothing serious—light snow, maybe a dusting.
The forecast was wrong
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