The night my husband Daniel was admitted to the hospital after a car accident, my world shrank to the sharp scent of disinfectant and the rhythmic beeping of machines. He had been on his way home from work when another driver ran a red light. The doctors said he was fortunate to survive, though recovery would take weeks. I practically lived at the hospital, sleeping in an unforgiving chair beside his bed and surviving on vending-machine coffee and constant anxiety.
That was when I became aware of the elderly woman in the neighboring bed.
On the second day, I asked if she wanted some soup. She looked surprised, then smiled and nodded. After that, I made sure she ate three times a day—extra cafeteria food or home-cooked meals when I went home to shower. We spoke softly while Daniel rested. Margaret never complained about her condition. Instead, she asked about me—my life, my part-time bookkeeping job, my marriage—and listened with a warmth that felt uncommon.
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