He fears vulnerability
Being close to someone also means showing yourself as you are. And this transparency can be frightening. Some men prefer to keep a part of themselves safe, for fear of being judged or hurt. Their withdrawal is therefore not a rejection, but a way of protecting oneself. Offering a pressure-free listening space promotes the return of trust.
When the body and mind can’t take it anymore, there is sometimes no energy left for anything. Burnout, lack of sleep, or accumulated worries can temporarily cut off any desire for closeness. In these cases, patience and support are the most beautiful gestures of love. He carries a secret or a worry
Sometimes, distance hides an emotion that is difficult to admit: guilt, shame or a situation he doesn’t know how to talk about. Without jumping to conclusions, it’s a good idea to stay alert to the signs of discomfort and open the door to a sincere, non-judgmental conversation.
